What’s the difference between Bigfoot, unicorns, and discovering your calling?

Two of them are myths and one is for real.

If you are a follower of Jesus, you do, in fact, have a calling and it will always be consistent with advancing God’s plan for humanity. The Bible talks about calling this way: “For we are God’s workmanship, created in Christ Jesus, to do the good works planned in advance for us to do.” (Ephesians 2:10).

And what are those good works? Jesus gave us a clear agenda that we are called to advance: to spread His love through His followers to the sick, the homeless, the orphans, the widows, the oppressed, the imprisoned, the hungry, the thirsty and the spiritually lost who are separated from God by sin and Satan.

In my book, The Joy Model: A Step-by-Step Guide to Peace, Purpose, and Balance, I mention that when I was going through Halftime in 2005, I was hoping for a different kind of calling. A secularized calling not a God-centered calling. A calling defined by a fun culture and meaningful work that energized me. Something that I was naturally gifted at and could make a living at. I was excited about making a positive difference in peoples’ lives, but I wasn’t so sure I wanted it to be all about Jesus. That seemed a little extreme to me. For some odd reason, I thought making it God-centered would drown out the other elements I craved. I wanted my calling but not the Caller’s agenda.

In other words, I was still under the impression that the best way for me to have joy was to find a calling that was more about me than others.

A quote by Frederick Buechner got me thinking differently. He said “The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.”


The apostle Luke recorded that Christ told the disciples “It is more blessed to give than receive.” (Acts 20:35)

I’ve come to see something in my own life – and in the lives of the people I have coached over the years: a life of all-out love of others is the formula for joy.

A life where the forty to sixty hours we have every week between Monday and Friday are pure expressions of both who we are and of God’s love.

A life where our passions, interests, and paychecks are the fully integrated equivalent of the highest, most noble, and most lever­aged gift we could offer our fellow man. This is doable. All that’s required is the creativity, courage and a process to go do it.

At the Halftime Institute, we have a process that helps people discover their calling. It’s actually quite simple (not easy, but simple).

1. Find the cause in the world that makes your blood boil, breaks your heart or makes you giddy with happiness. In other words, what makes you mad, sad or glad.

2. Next, figure out the skills and talents you enjoy using and apply them to that cause.

3. Do it in a way that is obvious to all that God is the loving force powering your human effort.

Maybe what makes your blood boil is that the culture at your work is toxic, making everyone miserable, and you know it doesn’t have to be this way. What skills can you bring to change the culture to one of Christ-like love?

Or perhaps the damage we are doing to the earth that God entrusted us with breaks your heart. How can you get involved in saving our planet in a way that is not politicized, but instead points people back to God as creator and man as protector?

Or maybe you love golf. How can you use your time on the course with others to ask them about their lives and needs and become a helpful friend instead of just a golf partner?

The combinations between your passion, your skills, and God’s love is endless.

If you’re craving more joy, purpose, peace and balance in your life, my book outlines a process for experiencing those things. It also encourages those who are serious about going on this journey to engage a coach to help them along the way.

Truly, it’s simple, but not easy. There are financial, emotional, spiritual, and marital dimensions that come into play. The Halftime Institute has 41 coaches worldwide who are called and equipped to help you if you’re up for the adventure.

This journey is worthwhile. We only have the one life. Let’s be intentional about living it with joy, purpose, and fulfillment.

Click here to contact our admissions team to see if the Halftime Institute can help you discover your calling.

Jeff Spadafora
Jeff Spadafora is a Master Certified Halftime Coach and a Lead Faciliator for The Halftime Institute. He spent 20 years as a leadership and executive development consultant for Fortune 1000 companies such as Ford Motor Company, Easter Seals. Compassion International, Compuware, Domino’s Pizza, Visteon, Northern Trust Bank, and Helene Curtis.

In 2005, Jeff was inspired by Bob Buford’s book Halftime and began his journey of discovering God’s true purpose for his second half. As he worked with his Halftime coach, it became clear that his calling is to help other people discover their calling.

He has coached over 130 men and women through the Halftime Journey and continues to make this a primary part of his ministry. As the leader of The Halftime Institute’s global coaching staff, he is also responsible for recruiting, training, and managing Halftime Certified coaches throughout the world.

Jeff served on the staff leadership team for ten years and was the lead designer of the Halftime curriculum and one of the primary facilitators of workshops for groups of people embarking on the Halftime journey. Jeff also writes and speaks globally about the issues of life purpose, joy, and kingdom impact.

His latest book, The Joy Model: A Step-by-Step Guide to a Life of Peace, Purpose, and Balance, is the result of a decade of personal growth, life coaching, coach leadership and study. WWW.THEJOYMODEL.COM

Jeff lives in Evergreen Colorado with his wife Michelle and has 3 children. He enjoys fishing, hunting, skiing, mountain biking and everything else the great outdoors of Colorado has to offer.

“Too many people focus the better part of their lives on the wrong things: the company’s agenda, other peoples’ ideas of success . . . money. Over time, this leads to frustration and emptiness. True freedom comes as a people discover their God-given design and pour themselves into service for others.” –Jeff Spadafora

Checkout Jeff's Articles:
The “Cowboy” Approach to Your Second Half Just Doesn't Work
What Should I Do With My Life?
I Lost My Heart
A Journey
An Ancient Halftimer

Listen to his podcasts:
Eternal Leadership - Coaches Corner
Eternal Leadership - Smoldering Discontent
Knowledge for Men
Theology of Business
Professional Christian Coaching Today
iWork4Him - Joy and Happiness